As for if other peoples negative thoughts affecting yours…. No, only if you let them.
As a Law of Attraction Coach I get asked this question often. The answer is, you just have to stay focused on your own thoughts of what you want to create. And really feel the thoughts, live them in your imagination often, so much so that it feels like you are already living it to some degree in your real life. Meaning you can really feel what it will be like. The more you do this and can stay in that space, the more you can in some way influence the one who cannot stay in the positive space. You may have an influence on the negative thinker with your positive thought.
If you are deliberately choosing your thoughts then you are in control of what you think. So you decide not to have the negative person’s thought take a hold of you. The key is to be deliberate about the thoughts you think. So when the negative thinker starts sharing their negativity with you, you can choose not to own those thoughts. You can acknowledge that the thought is the other person’s creation and that you don’t choose to create in that way.
We all create our own reality with our thoughts.
We all create our own reality and we can influence others by being the best we can be, it will rub off. But on the other hand, it does work both ways, you can be influenced by the negative thought of others if you allow it, by not recognizing that the negative thought actually belongs to someone else. So, being deliberate about the thoughts you choose to have as your own is all you need to do. When a negative thought comes up you can look at it and see if it does belong to you or if it belongs to someone else. Release the thoughts that are not yours. Just acknowledge that it is not what you think or feel and that it is someone else’s creation and then let it go. Just like that. You might even think of putting that thought in a bubble and blowing it away.
For the negative thoughts that are yours you can change them by just thinking of a slightly better feeling thought. Don’t reach too far, it has to feel real to you, you have to own that better feeling thought. It has to be one that makes you feel a little bit better. Then from there you can find the next better feeling thought, and take it from there. Little steps at a time. Think the new thought and then ask yourself, “does that feel better, the same, or worse?” As you keep choosing the better feeling thought you will raise your own vibration and you will be getting in touch with your positivity.
The nice thing about it is that the Law of Attraction is always working so you will get more of what your are thinking about. In this case you will receive more better feeling thoughts. Isn’t that just so cool
Imagine, Believe & Enjoy,