Tag Archives: better feeling

Feb7

Can other people’s negative thoughts effect me?

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Can other people’s negative thoughts effect me?

As for if other peoples negative thoughts affecting yours….
No, only if you let them.

As a Thought Empowerment Coach I get asked this question often. The answer is, you just have to stay focused on your own thoughts of what you want to create. And really feel the thoughts, live them in your imagination often, so much so that it feels like you are already living it to some degree in your real life. Meaning you can really feel what it will be like.  The more you do this and can stay in that space, the more you can in some way influence the one who cannot stay in the positive space. You may have an influence on the negative thinker with your positive thought.

If you are deliberately choosing your thoughts then you are in control of what you think. So you decide not to have the negative person’s thought take a hold of you. The key is to be deliberate about the thoughts you think. So when the negative thinker starts sharing their negativity with you, you can choose not to own those thoughts. You can acknowledge that the thought is the other person’s creation and that you don’t choose to create in that way.

We all create our own reality with our thoughts.

We all create our own reality and we can influence others by being the best we can be, it will rub off.  But on the other hand, it does work both ways, you can be influenced by the negative thought of others if you allow it, by not recognizing that the negative thought actually belongs to someone else. So, being deliberate about the thoughts you choose to have as your own is all you need to do. When a negative thought comes up you can look at it and see if it does belong to you or if it belongs to someone else. Release the thoughts that are not yours. Just acknowledge that it is not what you think or feel and that it is someone else’s creation and then let it go. Just like that. You might even think of putting that thought in a bubble and blowing it away.

For the negative thoughts that are yours you can change them by just thinking of a slightly better feeling thought. Don’t reach too far, it has to feel real to you, you have to own that better feeling thought. It has to be one that makes you feel a little bit better. Then from there you can find the next better feeling thought, and take it from there. Little steps at a time. Think the new thought and then ask yourself, “does that feel better, the same, or worse?” As you keep choosing the better feeling thought you will raise your own vibration and you will be getting in touch with your positivity.

The nice thing about it is that the Law of Attraction is always working so you will get more of what your are thinking about. In this case you will receive more better feeling thoughts. Isn’t that just so cool?

Imagine, Believe & Enjoy,
Linda

 

Jan16

Think-Feel-Live, stay positive and manifest your desires.

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Think-Feel-Live, stay positive and manifest your desires.

THINK about about  what you want to create, add real FEELINGS to the thoughts, and then watch as you LIVE your desires, and manifest your dreams.

If you have something in particular that you want to manifest, think about it.  Live it in your imagination as much as you can. Make your story really good, create a story that feels really good to you. And keep visiting that story, living it in your mind. The hardest part is when you notice the lack of what you want. When that happens go right back to your dreams, imagine and feel the story as you think it. You can keep it to yourself so that you don’t get all the naysayers telling you it can’t happen, or any sort of negative (well meaning) comment. Reach for a better feeling thought and come up with general statements about your current reality in order to soothe your emotions. Then from there you can reach for more and more thoughts that feel better. Return back to the good feeling story of your desire, continue to feel that story as you want it to be.

Another great thing to do is to keep your Appreciation and Gratitude Journal. Did you read my post about future appreciations? I have created many things just from doing that, out of the blue these things came to me. I know it’s because I would write appreciations about the things that I want to manifest as if they already happened. I would feel the statement and live it in my mind. It becomes fun actually. And when you start vibing that way, enjoying the story of what you are now starting to expect, it just comes to you. It has to. The Law of Attraction will match your vibration every time. The story becomes so familiar to you that you can really feel what it will be like. When you get to that point, it comes.

I’m actually working on a tough one to manifest right now.

I do tell people about it. I know most people don’t think it is possible, but as long as I believe I can manifest it, I’ll keep dreaming of it.  I am going to heal, or at least regain full mobility without pain in my left shoulder from a partial rotator cuff tear. I was almost going to give up, I almost made another appointment with a surgeon to schedule surgery, but I just couldn’t shake the feeling that I can do it for myself. I’ve been meditating on it as well. Guess what, I have a little more mobility and strength in that shoulder. So now I’m really motivated to see what I can do. This will be a fun one to write about. And a great success story to show and teach people about the power of their thoughts. I’ll keep you updated on that story.

Think it, feel it and live it. It can be that easy if you just get out of your own way. When you notice where your thoughts are about the desire you want to manifest, if they are going towards the lack, change direction and gently go back to the direction of receiving that desire. Distract yourself from the lack and dream about the abundance. It is sometimes hard to do that for yourself, and that’s where having a Coach comes in handy. You see, we Coaches, keep you on track to your creations. We hold you accountable to keep up with the processes between sessions, that we guide you through, . The absolute best part is that every idea and solution you work with comes from you. I don’t ever tell you what you need to do. You already know that, only you have lost touch with it. I guide you to your own inspiration and before you know it, you are living your desires. It’s really great! I love my job!

After a few wins with doing this it becomes easier and easier to manifest. You will start to trust in the Universe and in your personal power of thought and you will become more allowing. You will be able to just think it, feel it and live whatever it is you want to manifest.

Let the fun begin,
Linda